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January 25th, 2007

Forgiving Business

Posted by Kelvin in Everything

Forgiving and Business are two words which don’t particularly go well together.

However, in the whole of last week (and this), I’ve probably learnt, and possibly seen more than what usually falls into my scope of matters. In other words, somehow, these two terms hit me really hard, and cause somewhat great impacts, but thankfully, positive ones. Motivational ones , to be exact.

For those of you who know me, you also probably know that I draw the line between work and play very distinctively. No, that also means I’m not the type to abandon current work-in-progress for a alluring game of “heroes” attempting to pull hairs out of one another in DotA or some Counter-Strike matches. And yes, I *do* play them when there probably isn’t anything outstanding bugging.

Makes sense …or not?

Hence, I shall begin with the formal route - inspired from one of my clients who strongly encouraged entrepreneurship, which was probably the main source for getting sensible business quotes stuck in my hate these 2 weeks. Now I’m starting to take on my very “objective” (or rather, task) -oriented working style again . Oops.

But, but, but.. The reason always almost a standard for everyone who chooses to occupy him/herself with matters which actually might lead to social deprivement (a term I coined up to have a similar meaning as the slang, “no life“), and that reason is undoubtedly:

Work gives Money, Money buys Rice, Rice feeds You.

..and no matter how you wish to rephrase that, it’s still rather imminent - don’t you think? We all work for food (rice), and other things which we do value, our more-than-friends, our family, our leisure, and basically, our lifestyle. Who’s going to foot the bill of that expensive buffet you had at a rather unknown restaurant in the middle of nowhere, otherwise?

The few other inspiring ideas which my contact kindly broadened my insights upon was the fact that one should always know where they stand. Always *stay* in the league you want to be, and you’ll either get there, and/or remain there once you’re already there.

A local analogy was quoted among Tiger Airways and SIA (isn’t it that monopolitical company? - or maybe I mixed up?). The former serves as a budget carrier, but the latter serves as one with premium services, huge couches, fancy in-plane toilet cubicles, and the whole set of works.

Question here would be: Why did they (SIA) setup a subsidiary instead or merely lowering prices to fend off competition?

I’ll leave you to answer this question, probably. Enough clues are dropped, and a reader, should probably catch most of them already.

Now, apply the point here into your real life. How many times have you failed to stick to your stand? How has your decision affected your WORTH in return?

Would someone with loads and loads of paper qualification proceed to work at a fastfood chain?

After getting those in your head, try getting Theory #3 of the day, which everyone who studies in Republic Polytechnic (RP) probably already knows: Stick to your core competencies.

For those of you who don’t, or probably slept through that lesson, basically it means that you should focus on what you’re great at. If you’re great at designing, stick to it, and don’t worry about programming crappy things. If you’re good with fishes, go into that industry, don’t bother about fish tank filters - someone else will be good at that.

Why not have that someone to take that burden, then? Sheesh.

Ponder upon these 3 strategies listed, and soon enough, when the clock on my laptop isn’t reading 2.03am, I’ll continue the part on “forgiving”. I seriously need sleep. *Yawns*.

January 18th, 2007

Breakfast with Love

Posted by Kelvin in Everything

Okay. So, one night, I suddenly decided that my Lafina was really sweet, and that I should make *something* for her, since after all, I was going to fetch her from her place in the west side, to school, here, in Woodlands. (yes, I too, stay in Woodlands).

I then set off on my quest to ask for ideas. Woohoo. *Crowd is supposed to cheer, “Go! Kelvin, Go!”*

Okok, nevertheless. The hour was quite late, and only Beatrice and Audrey were online. I do think I’m in luck, actually, since both of them *too* are lovingly attached, and could help me with coming up with really, really, “innovative” ideas. Then again, I settled on the breakfast idea, because I know Lafina will be hungry in the morning, for sure.

Beatrice suggested rice in a heart shape. My initial reaction was somewhat the form of a question mark, like, er, this: Undecided <– Yes, this. Audrey suggested big breakfast (Yea, I know the name is trademark-ed by McDonalds, hence I have to disclaim the capitalization of it), eggs, hash browns, pancakes and all.

Actually, now I know why she can qualify to be “manly” during one of the many silly skits we had in class for presentation instead of our usual powerpoint slides - the “manly” food. =X Yes, I still remember the stick-on mustache you had. Sheesh.

Okay. Now I had a small problem. How do I mix eggs, with rice, and hash browns, and put them into a heart shape?

Ideas formulated almost after a 3 minute lag - due to the cold weather lately. But I suppose I’m hot-blooded enough, so it does warm things up, doesn’t it? My idea was…

Was…

Was…

To sleep, and wake up at 6 in the next morning and go shopping at the supermarket just 3 minutes walk away. (at this point, you are expected to “echo” something like.. “Wow, lucky Kelvin, he has a supermarket 3 minutes away!”). Unfortunately, or not, sleep passed too quickly, maybe because I was *really* looking forward to making Lafina breakfast:

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Yes, I got up at 6am. It’s a really great achievement, for someone who sleeps 18 hours a day, okay? Must encourage me by throwing flowers, be it chrysanthemum, lilies, roses, sunflowers, or even sunflower seeds. As long as it’s edible, can already

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Of course, since Kelvin is beyond the class of “auntie“, he wouldn’t bore you with supermarket photos - rather, with cooking shots, of the frying pan. Hur hur hur hur… and the prawns.

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First, of course, fry the meats, and boil/steam the prawns, since prawns are actually considered, meat, too.

Then, (remove everything) and break an egg into the pan, pouring in the cooked rice before the egg gets cooked. This way, the egg gets cooked “into” the rice, providing the interesting taste. As usual, add salt and pepper as desired.

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Keep frying it, and add the vegetables last, since they get cooked quickly. For more colour, try ketchup and chilli sauce; together with a dash of soya sauce.

Now… Once everything *is* cooked.. Comes the challenge: MAKING RICE LOOK LIKE A HEART!

but, Kelvin, here, tackles it:

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Er, wait. Where’re the hearts? - Try clicking on the photo, to see a larger copy if you can’t catch them here, or simply, refer to the next photo, duh.

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Can YOU see it? (the heart shape?)

January 16th, 2007

Self-Control.

Posted by Kelvin in Everything

40 minutes before I’m supposed to meet one of my clients in a major coffee outlet of a local shopping mall somewhere not-so-nearby, I realise that my younger brother played MapleStory until the battery of my presentation laptop is flat.

Simply, dead. Zero. Zip. Nada. NO GO.

God, now I’m not sure who or what I should hate, or blame. Do I blame my brother for playing the game? Do I blame the game for influence on him? or Do I blame myself for being the foolish bastard to leave the laptop around so he could use it.

Kelvin, control, control. DON’T flare up. Work + Money isn’t everything.

What do you think? Who should I blame?

January 15th, 2007

Resoluting 14 Days After

Posted by Kelvin in Everything

Almost everyone I’ve come to be acquainted with who owns a blog scribbled down their New Year Resolutions two weeks ago - 14 days.

Strange, isn’t it - how everyone aims to be unique in their own distinct style, but end up scribbling resolutions all the same. (Then again, one *could* argue that I’m nonetheless “common” since I’m even having resolutions too, but… but…) Frankly, I tried taking lots of time this New Year (or the few days around 1st January) to decide what I really wanted, what I could change, and stuff. Somehow, I was at a blank and only suggested crappy changes to myself.

Would YOU make crappy changes just for the sake of doing it? Changes like: Wake up 10 minutes earlier for school this year, spend less pocket money, learn to feed the pussy, er, cats, under your HDB subsidized block, donate more money to 1900-112-6868, and the works. - I consider them crappy, really.

…For the very fact that you’re being a better person just for the sake of being better and making a change. If you really saw resolutions/changes this way - you’re better off NOT changing. Hence, I took a long 14 days, to see what would knock on the door, what would go, and what really “changed”.

Amazingly, things turned out mostly in a positive state (except for the fact that I had a very ugly quarrel with Lafina darrrrr-linggg - the sweetest gal of my life, though it got resolved eventually Yell). Oh, that reminds me, I do need to work on that occasional hot-headedness of mine. Deduct a few points from me please, everyone, so that I’ll keep that in mind.

(Wei How - if you’re reading this, I apologize for screaming shit at you in class, but just try not to push me when I’m already under the tremendous pressure of completing assignments by 2PM when the time then already is 2.30PM). Thanks.) - yes, he’s the sexy guy whom you’ve heard and read about. Go find his pic in the previous pages, then message me for his contact if you’re interested to get to know him. Okay?

Back to the issue of resolution, then. Come 2007, Kelvin goes back to school, sees it as normal. I’m sure for the masses - it will revolve around somewhere there, too.

Oh, first thing Kelvin spots - Yandao.com doesn’t generate such a hype anymore. Doesn’t matter - I learnt the really really hard way about deciding between my website, and the loveliest girl of my live, when I made a fuss over the take down of (the existing) KelvinAndLafina.com, and we ended up in a big quarrel.

Yes, yes, this happened on the first day of the new year - hence, I will have to add it to my list of aspirations for the new year - getting rid of silly tempers.

Still, in the previous year, I have been spending crazily on almost everything I see and felt interested in, with some pocket money *cough* I obtained from the slightly “greyer” areas of, er, the industry. Yes, the IT industry, and yes, they contribute largely to my sometimes extensive income. Note that grey is not black, okay?

This year, something crazy happened: I’m offered 6 projects within the month. Each project should keep me busy for several weeks, and hence, I shouldn’t really come out with new cranky tools for everyone to use, courtesy of yours truly. Maybe I’ll grab the 2007 Year 1 photos, if I can, that is… Then again, these projects should keep me well-funded, I hope.

I need to eat, you know. Food is expensive.

What changes here, is that, I’m considering moving my income entirely to the whiter areas of the industry, whatever industry that may be. Scary. Temptations of the dark side, can actually consume you, as a person. I’ll probably talk about temptations sometime soon, and no, I’ll try not to get YOU tempted. Okay?

Still, temptation is yet another issue I have to work on. Lafina complains I get tempted easily, but I think its just by her. Do all you guys out there get tempted by your girlfriends more easily? - For those of you who’ve decided to “aim” abit more straight now, and focus fire on a specific target, at least? Perhaps you’ll agree. Eunice, if you’re ever reading this, you’ll agree, no?

Oh well, Kelvin has to remain motivated, and before he goes to some state of possible hibernation with not-so-much publicity, I’ll release an RJ generator here, soon enough - basically, generate loads of crappy words with no true meaning for your RJ’s ;)

Off to more thinking now, hopefully I’ll learn to see positively through these life-changing restructures.



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